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Self-Help Questionnaire
The following questionnaire is provided for your interest and self-assessment. Please read and answer each of the questions carefully. After completing the questionaire in full, press the SUBMIT button. Your answers will be presented in a manner which will allow you to make further choices.
Check only those questions to which you give a DEFINITE YES answer.
If your answer is "NO", or "SOMETIMES", leave the box unchecked.
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Do you suffer from indecision, uncertainty, or hesitancy? |
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20. |
Do you have difficulty choosing between one thing and another? |
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21. |
Do you experience extreme mood swings, or have difficulty in keeping your emotional balance? |
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22. |
Are you dissatisfied with your current role in life, feeling that life is passing you by? |
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Have you tried many different directions in life, but nothing seems to bring satisfaction? |
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Would you like to find a new lifestyle or career, or change your old one, but have difficulty deciding what you should be doing? |
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25. |
Do you lack confidence? |
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26. |
Do you not try things for fear of failing? |
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27. |
Do you feel inferior, and that others are more capable and qualified than you? |
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28. |
On rising do you find yourself tired, not wanting to get up? |
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29. |
Do you feel some part of you needs to be strengthened before you can tackle the day? |
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Do you find once you've started your daily activities your tiredness is forgotten, and you're able to complete your task? |
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31. |
Are you absentminded, or does your attention easily wander, making it difficult to concentrate? |
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Do you find you have little interest in present circumstances, often daydreaming, wishing you were somewhere else? |
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Do you find yourself dozing off frequently, regardless of where you are? |
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Do you find yourself caught between living in the present and dwelling in memories of the past? |
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Are there things you would like to have done with your life but never had the opportunity to do? |
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Do you find yourself reminiscing about the good old days, wishing you were able to live your life over again? |
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Do you find yourself indifferent and apathetic toward life? |
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38. |
Are you resigned to your current circumstances, making little effort to improve things or find joy? |
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Do you feel you've given up and don't care one way or the other what happens? |
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40. |
Are you troubled by persistent unwanted thoughts? |
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41. |
Do you worry or have mental arguments that circle around in your mind? |
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42. |
Do you have difficulty sleeping due to mental chatter and worries? |
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Do you find that you're unable to learn from past experiences, repeating the same mistakes or patterns of behavior? |
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Due to lack of observation, do you find it necessary to go over or correct things already done? |
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Is there a particular situation or condition continually recurring in your life which you would like to overcome? |
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Are you now going through, or have you recently gone through, an illness or personal ordeal that left you physically or mentally drained? |
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Do you tire easily with no reserve energy to complete your tasks or enjoy the day? |
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Do you feel sapped of strength and vitality, where even the least effort exhausts you? |
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Do others find you aloof, prideful and at times condescending? |
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Do you keep to yourself, not wishing to be interfered with or to interfere in other people's affairs? |
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Are you self-reliant and prefer spending your time alone? |
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Do you find yourself losing patience, becoming tense and irritable with people and things that move too slowly for you? |
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Do you do things in a rush, racing from one place or situation to another? |
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Do you find you need to work alone, because others can't keep up with your pace? |
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Do you find others avoiding conversation with you because you tend to talk a great deal? |
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Do you dislike being alone and seek the compnay of anyone willing to listen to your troubles? |
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Do you feel the need to steer conversations back to your special interests or problems, and are reluctant to discontinue them even when the listener has to leave? |
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When worried or in pain, do you tend to conceal it from others, making light of even the most trying of circumstances? |
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Do you go out of your way to avoid burdening others' wishes in order to avoid argument or quarrel? |
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When troubled, do you find yourself drinking alcohol or using drugs to assist in keeping up a happy disposition? |
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Are you easily imposed upon because of your willingness to help others? |
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Is it difficult for you to say no when you're asked for help, becoming more a servant than a willing helper? |
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Do you neglect your own needs, because you are too busy taking care of other people's needs? |
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Are you involved in a relationship or situation that you would like to be free of but cannot break away from? |
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65. |
Are you currently in a state of transition or change? |
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In the midst of this change, do you find you're having difficulty letting go of past attachments and starting new beginnings? |
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Are you suspicious and mistrusting of other people's motives and intentions? |
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Do others find you spiteful, envious, jealous or vengeful? |
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Do you find yourself lacking compassion or warmth toward others? |
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Are you rarely content with your accomplishments, feeling that you could always do better? |
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Do you blame yourself for other people's mistakes, feeling that their shortcomings are in some way your fault or responsibility? |
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Are you hard on yourself when you fail to live up to the standards or expectations that you've set for yourself? |
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Do you tend to over-extend your commitments? |
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Do you find yourself overwhelmed by your work and despite being capable, fell you've taken on more than you can do? |
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Do you become despondent when faced with the magnitude of your responsibilities? |
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Have there been past traumas or shocks in your life from which you maynot have completely recovered? |
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Do you feel a past surgery or accident is responsible for your present condition? |
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Have you ever suffered a personal loss which you haven't gotten over? |
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Do you feel you've reached the limits of your endurance, and there's nothing but annihilation to face? |
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Do you suffer from mental anguish and deep despair? |
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81. |
Do you feel that the burden of life is more than you can bear? |
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Have you lost hope that you'll recover from, or be helped in overcoming, an illness or difficulty? |
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Do you feel it's useless to seek further help for your problems? |
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Have you given up hope that things will change for the better in some circumstance or situation in your life? |
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Do you ever become gloomy and depressed for no know reason? |
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Does this depression envelop you like a dark cloud, hiding the joys of life? |
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Do you find this gloom and depression, for no apparent reason, lifts as suddenly as it comes? |
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Are you easily discouraged when things don't go your way? |
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When setting out to accomplish a task, do you become over-sensitive to small delays and hindrances which may lead to self-doubt and at times to depression? |
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90. |
Is it hard for you to start over again once you've encountered difficulties? |
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Are you one who tirelessly struggles on despite oppositions and delays? |
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Can you always be depended upon to complete what you set out to do, regardless of the challenge? |
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Do you tend to throw yourself into your projects, neglecting your own needs as well as the needs of those close to you? |
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Through no fault of your own, do you feel that life has been unfair or unjust to you? |
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Have you become resentful or bitter toward those who may have treated you poorly? |
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Despite all you've done, do you feel your best efforts have largely gone unrewarded, while others not as deserving as yourself have gained? |
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Do you feel unclean or ashamed over an act you should not have committed, or over someone or something having violated you personally? |
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Do you find yourself preoccupied with small physical problems such as pimples, small blemishes, or rashes, while over looking more serious conditions? |
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Do you feel there is something wrong with, or some things you would like changed in your physical appearance? |
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Are you compulsive about cleanliness, even at times to the extreme? |
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Are you afraid of becoming, or feel you've already become, contaminated and need to be cleansed? |
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